Topic #4 - Appreciating Your Family of Origin

Good morning.  It's week 4!

For this week's contemplation question, I would like you to write about some of the things you appreciate about your family of origin.  First of all, no family (no parents) is perfect.  Often times when we are children or teenagers, we may feel hurt or angry or disappointed with our parents or our family of origin in general.  We may feel that they are too strict with us, or that they don't understand us, or that they don't pay attention to us. Then as we get older, hopefully, we realize that for the most part, our parents, grandparents, uncles, and aunts tried to raise us and to love us as best they could.  What are some things you appreciate about the people who raised you?

For me, I grew up in a stable family.  My mother always paid attention to details, such as the weather, and if I dressed warmly enough. She faithfully cooked dinner every night and tried to make sure we all ate balanced meals, including rice, meat, fish, vegetables, and fruit.  My mom passed away three years ago.  I miss her faithful love and concern over me.  My father was always busy working; but every time he came home, he would ask what I was learning in school and what new things were happening in my life.  He tried to make time to talk to me.  I am glad my dad is still healthy and alive.  He is in his late seventies now.

I look forward to reading about your families.  :)

Mrs. Tong